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  • ToTheGraveMyLove@sh.itjust.works
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    3 days ago

    Gotcha, that makes more sense. So its just driven by insecurity, but the type of insecurity is the determining factor. I could see see scenarios where both variants could be applied to the opposite gender, but I think a lot of tastes, porn included, are algorithm driven these days so it seems unlikely you’d ever see something like that.

    That conversation took a real left turn, but I learned something new so thank you for that. 😂

    • idiomaddict@lemmy.world
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      3 days ago

      Yes, though I would caution you about that level of reductiveness. I know men into Cuckholding and women into cuckqueaning and they’ve got relatively little in common personality-wise. They’re both founded on insecurity, but a kink for nuns and a kink for feet are both founded on a longing for the forbidden and they’re not the same.

      Edit: do femme and masc hit you better than women and men?