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      Church is (almost) free therapy though, problem is that some church leaders want to use believers for their own benefit

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      Probably would also talk hours with amazingly attractive women while in therapy too

      I mean, there are ethical boundaries, but already more than a guy trying to find strength outside likely has

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    IF you can be shamed into going a Russian church to be manly, you are headed in the opposite direction from the path to manliness - you become a pussy who can only follow.

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    This wispy-bearded Texan is in the vanguard of a movement urging conservatives to relocate to Russia. Last August, Putin introduced fast-track shared values visa for those fleeing Western liberalism.

    Oh no … don’t do that. Us lefties would hate if all our manly men left us to deal with these Haitians eating our dogs alone. That would trigger and own us so much.

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      Well, they’ll probably have manlier problems to deal with since moving to Russia is leopard eating your face speedrun, with examples such as Russel Bentley or that one conservative Canadian family that sold their everything to move to Russia and got their money stolen by Russian banks.

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      I really wish Russia would get it’s shit together. It’s a beautiful country that just goes on forever. I’ve met Russians that are just awesome. I would love to go on vacation there, or even retire there one day. Buy a little dacha on a river next to some sleepy little village. But the politics, fucking Putin, fucking oligarchs…

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          I don’t think it’s starting, I think the mask is just slipping off. Russia used violence, America has been using financial violence…

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        Has there ever been a period in history where Russians haven’t been oppressed by their government or the church?

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            While the dissolution of the Soviet union was great for the world, you would not have wanted to be a citizen of Russia living in Russia at that point. I have family members who still live there and did then and it was utter chaos and also created local power vacuums that got filled with local mafia style gangs or local police who also just acted like local mafia style gangs.

            But yeah, as far as the federal government not shitting in Russians, that would be a proper window of time

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      Are you talking about me? How do you know? It’s pure rumors anyway! I’m extremely manly, OK? My car makes a lot of noise, so yeah. I’m heterosexual btw

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        Who? People keep fucking saying there’s a lot but all I see is a vocal minority? You see 1/200 and you focus on them?

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            That propaganda helped Trump win the Gen Z vote. I wouldn’t say it’s a minority when factoring only youth. Plus there are plenty of middle aged and older men that have fragile masculinity.

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        Only 75, per the article. No one writes articles like this about women getting into Wicca even though it’s hundreds of times more common

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          What’s wrong with Wicca? The women I’ve met who were into that were very nice and a ton of fun and the “worst” of them were just delightfully odd. Unlike the strutting asshole men which the OP concerns who are all up in themselves and their supposed “masculinity”. FWIW, I was an athlete when I was young and met and defeated more than my share of these jackasses. Lost to few too. But that’s sport. And unlike those guys, I learned the right lessons from sport. They never will.

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        Having once been a young man, there’s a period where one questions their role in the world and accordingly acts the fool before figuring it out. I had an upbringing with more than adequate parents and education that helped me through that period without me making an ass of myself often enough to be singled out as being an exceptional ass. I am lucky. Some people aren’t and they act out. And those that are exceptional asees act out and are really self important and noisy. Mostly just to hear themselves and drown out the voices of those who are telling them to stop being such an ass.

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    If you have to be told how to be “manly” then you probably definitely aren’t whatever the fuck you even think “manly” is.

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      I find the obsession with being super manly that some types have to be highly suspicious. Seems they are either very insecure or seeking manliness out of a closeted gay urge. Because it’s just not the kind of thing you need to go get help with. Performant manliness is still a performance.

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    15 dumbasses in East Bumblefuck: *do something*

    BBC: A NEW GLOBAL TREND?!?!

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      It’s propaganda. We’re trying to make it look like every man’s reaction because they want to years argumentum ad popularum try and make it so

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    I know at least few Russian-speaking people where I live (Kraków) who tried to convert me to their church. One Uber (or Bolt idk) driver, when I told him that I am interested in practicing Russian and Ukrainian wanted me to come to some church to read a Bible or something, and other time one friend of mine wanted me to come to (I think) Orthodox church to meet some women or something like that.

    I think I make an error, when I tell people I am agnostic, it’s like a sign for other people to try convert me, and I don’t really want to argue with them.

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      I empathize with women who love women much more than with men who hate them. May you find fulfillment. No kind of (consensual) love is better than others.

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    So basically a church of assholes competing with each other to out asshole each other. Then they wonder why their kids don’t talk to them and that “manliness” skips a generation. I am willing to bet these “absurdly manly” men are in the closet and over compensating.Using an iron is too feminine? Bitch if you want to be respected as a professional don’t fucking show up in wrinkled ass clothes. Why do you think the army fucking irons? Because you look good in unwrinkled clothes. God dammit I am going on a rant again.

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      Irons can burn in hell. Either steamer or dryer, but ironing legitimately sucks. It somehow makes my shirt more wrinkly than I started.

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        Sounds like you’re too manly for your iron. Try being a bit gayer next time.

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          Try fucking your shirt. Nothing manlier than a man manhandling a piece of rag.

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        Yes. It’s in their regulations. We’re not talking in-the-heat-of-the-battle-dress code here. Although, I guess you could use a hot iron and the board as weapons in combat.

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      It’s also Russian for bonus points. Masculinity is defined as being the oppressor class and thus can never attain stability