For me it is this. When I was married he didn’t understand when I would request reminders to go to the bathroom, shower, eat, do laundry. He laughed. He thought I had dementia.

Nope just adhd with a swiss cheese memory.

I have gardeners who visit twice monthly for the front yard and they’ve been instructional and helpful with the garden. They weed it and tell me how much to water it and other care needs.

They cut my frustration and work by 75%. Highly recommend hiring gardeners.