I want to know what Japan is like from people who actually live in Japan especially after seeing some misleading posts online from people who don’t live in Japan & people misunderstanding something resulting in people being misleadingly negative about Japan

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    I’m a permanent resident of Japan and am raising a family here. I think you would get better responses if you posed more specific questions, or provided examples of what kind of misunderstandings people have experienced and posted about online.

    I find Japan a pleasant place to live, but it is far from perfect, just like any society. The cost of living is quite reasonable compared to many other countries, which makes the lower salaries go further.

    People are generally friendly, but you sometimes have to read between the lines, as people tend to be less direct so as to avoid confrontation (“It is a little difficult” is a polite way to say “No!” for example).

    Anyway, if you have any other questions I’ll be around.

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        its less bussling and profitable than it used to be pre covid. some gimmick restaurants and several arcades have closed down.

        people are just going to shop on yahoo auctions/amazonjp and such for merch. japan also overtime has been opening up to pc gaming in the past few years (basically the only country in asia where consoles, mainly handheld, is significantly more popular than pcs, where its virtually the reverse elsewhere) (both are smaller than mobile gaming market though combined)

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      Japan doesn’t have pork broth. (Biggest culture shock for me)

      As in ramen? Have you ever been to Kyushu? These things are regional.

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      Akihabara:
      Urban shopping area in central Tokyo, Japan. considered by many to be the epicentre of modern Japanese otaku culture, and is a major shopping district for video games, anime, manga, electronics and computer-related goods. Icons from popular anime and manga are displayed prominently on the shops in the area, and numerous maid cafés and some arcades are found throughout the district.

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      Great response! Just a comment, 食べ歩き (eating while walking) is definitely not seen with good eyes in many places in Japan. Some very touristic streets even have signs to forbid it.

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          That’s the case for very specific places, but in general, tabearuki is considered 行儀の悪いこと, meaning bad manners, basically.

          Take a look at this article, for example. Or this anectode. Or info from a language school. Or this quora answer. They all discuss how eating while walking is bad manners and can bring nuisance to the people around you, even in non crowded places. Of course this is not every Japanese person’s opinion! I’ve even seen people advocating for it.

          I think it’s not such bad manner that you would be scolded by a stranger, perhaps by a Japanese partner or close friend, but it’s definetly not seen in good eyes in general.

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          Trains in the UK are more expensive than flying as well. They are also slower. They only make finical sense when the journey is too short or you need to be in the centre of the city when arriving.

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    レミーは英語圏のサイトを圧倒しているし、日本人の大半は英語ができないから、このサイトを利用しない。だから、実際の日本人からの回答は得られない。

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      [Lemmy] dominates English-speaking sites, and most Japanese people don’t use this site because they can’t speak English. Therefore, we cannot get answers from actual Japanese people.

      translation by Google

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        How I feel browsing mastodon and it’s not anywhere near as bad as the inverse for other countries.

      • x4740N@lemmy.worldOP
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        Don’t use Google translate because it will get Japanese / 日本語 wrong

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        I can verify that google translate got some things right but I don’t know all the kana & kanji in that scentence yet to be able to read it

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      I only understood a some words in that scentence because I haven’t yet learned enough Japanese to read that fully

      I haven’t learned that big of a wordset yet as I’m primarily focusing on learning grammer at the moment before continuing to learn vocabulary

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    Many parts of Japan are stunningly beatiful. The largest cities are some of the most overwhelming places I’ve ever been, but everything works much better than you might expect.

    The people are generally respectful and kind if you are the same. I found people to be generally tolerant of unintended rudeness from a foreigner, especially if you apologize. Jokes and humility go a long way.

    There’s a TON of Japanese people there. Like, they’re freaking EVERYWHERE.

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      To this point, the Tokyo skytree may be the most entertaining place I’ve ever been. You can see so much life happening all around, you can see how far Tokyo sprawls, you can see how large the breadth of humanity can be. If you intensely focus on one small spot of the city, you see a myopic little section, but then you raise up, and see the entirety of “Civilization”. It’s super impressive. I expected that it would be fun to see, and maybe spend 20 minutes up there looking around. I spent almost 3 hours just examining life.

      I’m sure places like this exist elsewhere, Tokyo seems like the perfect place for it though.

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        Highly recommend sitting in a cafe in Montmartre Paris. Especially one looking down those spindly small roads. Excellent place to watch humanity on a micro scale.

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      I know about yuta because I am learning Japanese but I don’t think I have seen their other videos outside of learning Japanese

      Right now I’m slowly working my way through grammer at a pace that works for me

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          If you’re trying to learn Japanese, wanikani for kanji and bunpro for grammar have been the best resources I’ve found. People recommend to just use anki but I don’t have the time to customize decks and mine sentences for hours on end. Wanikani and bunpro set up a structure that’s easy to follow and understand. I’ve loved using them over the past year.

        • x4740N@lemmy.worldOP
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          With duolingo and apps like them I don’t actually use them because they don’t allow you to structure your learning to best help you learn

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          With Duolingo, it really helps if you’ve got someone else to practice with who’s working on the same language (or already knows it).

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          Yeah they help but I mainly use them as supplementary information now because hearing the same information explained differently from other sources does help me understand something that may be explained in a way I don’t understand in a specific source

          I mainly use the resources from: https://morg.systems/58465ab9

          And I also created a github page that lists the other resources that I use though I don’t update it that often:

          https://github.com/njosey/Japanese-Learning-Resources/blob/main/README.md

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    I’m not japanese but I want to travel there. We’ve discovered Takeshii from Japan on YouTube a while ago and I think he is doing a good job in capturing some opinions around different aspects of living in Japan. I’d say it’s worth checking.

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      “Japanese people on lemmy, what is Japan actually like?” “I’m not japanese but…”

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        “Japanese people on lemmy, what is Japan actually like?” “…”

        wow that’s so much better than people trying to help!

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        I feel like Americans or Europeans would find the answers from the perspective of an American/European living in Japan more useful.

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      I do watch him but I need to watch more of his videos as I’ve only seen a select few that intrest me so far

      I’d like to expand to more channels like his as well

      I had honestly forgotten about his channel when posting this question but it’s good to make this post because it does expand the scope of information on this subject to make it broader

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          I’m subscribed to them because I saw their Japanese fridge video when searching for Japanese fridges on YouTube but haven’t yet watched the rest of their videos

          Thank you for reminding me of them

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    I’ve even living in Japan for almost a decade (probably closer if you count times I visited for months before living here). If you have specific questions, I’m happy to answer them.

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      I’ve often thought about taking a vacation in Japan, so I have a few genuine questions.

      • What should a visitor see or do that isn’t too expensive?
      • I’m a little over 190 cm tall. Are there any popular tourist activities that my height would make more difficult?
      • My ability to communicate in Japanese would consist entirely of using Google Translate on my phone. Would language be a significant barrier to a good visit?

      Thanks for making yourself available for this.

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        You might have to get used to ducking more than usual. And showers in AirBnBs might be too short to wash your shoulders and head. Hotels in the cities are fine in my experience.

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          Almost every shower I’ve seen in Japan has it on a movable hose rather than fixed, so at least there’s that. I forgot when I went back to the US for a visit for the first time in ~6 years and was super annoyed, heh.