• EdibleFriend@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    I know this is a very tame example for what he meant but I’m reminded of Mr Rogers saying look for the helpers

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    “Don’t worry about a thing, honey. I’m gonna help you through this.”

    “Those are all normal noises.”

    “Luggage compartment closing. Cross-checking.”

    “Just sit back and relax.”

    “That’s just the engine powering up.”

    “That’s just the engine struggling.”

    “That’s just the carp swimming around your ankles.”

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    I did this once. A stranger asked me to hold her hand as we landed. It was the height of COVID and I was kind of wary, but I used some hand sanitizer before and after, and grabbed her hand as we hit the usual turbulence and bumps on approach. I figured if she was scared enough to ask a stranger to hold her hand, it would be meaningful to her to do it. We didn’t really talk before or after. Once we landed and started taxiing, she let go, thanked me, and I said you’re welcome.

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      I figured if she was scared enough to ask a stranger to hold her hand, it would be meaningful to her to do it.

      This is such an important realization, I think. It was a little bit awkward for you, but imagine her internal process.

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      I’ve experienced some scary shit, for me – nearly lost a limb (thanks be to medicine), cancer scare, etc. Life shit.

      The simple human kindness of reassuring touch is so trivial at the time until you’re really in the depths of the fear in the spinning, wild, no-no-no-no part. Then the triviality of reassuring human touch - platonic, but there to say you’re not alone - is a fucking lifeline. Just for a moment.

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      I have done it for kids before but not adults. I would do the same though. I flew from STL to Mobile, Al with a transfer in Atlanta when I was in 6th grade. The flight attendants and others that helped me thru it were wonderful.

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    Not to be cynical, but she’s seated in First Class. In my experience, there is usually one flight attendant for first class and one or more other ones for coach. On that plane may only be 15 first class passengers that need to be taken care of by that flight attendant.

    I would like to think that this would have happened in coach too, but those flight attendants are a lot more busy.

    Still, very nicely done to that flight attendant. Delta, give that flight attendant a raise!

    edit to add: My goodness the disbelief in these being first class makes me think you haven’t flown on commercial airplanes very much. Here’s a map of that type of jet (which @zainitopia@lemmy.world correctly pointed out is a CRJ-900. A small regional jet Delta flies. The flight attendant is sitting on the floor in aisle 4. Here’s a seat map showing all TWELVE of the First Class seats on this plane

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      That’s a pretty cheap looking first class. It doesn’t even have in flight entertainment!

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      Idk what the other comments are saying this is very clearly first class on a Delta flight

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        Outside of America, first class isn’t a relative term, but a fairly absolute one. If a flight doesn’t have very luxurious seats, it might not have a first class at all, and will instead have business class. If it lacks even the degree of luxury necessary to call its seats business class, it might only have premium economy, which is a term for seats which are entirely normal seats, but with slightly more legroom. You’d never get first class that is remotely possible to confuse for premium economy, because first class means something specific, it’s not relative to what else that particular plane is fitted for.

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          If it lacks even the degree of luxury necessary to call its seats business class, it might only have premium economy, which is a term for seats which are entirely normal seats, but with slightly more legroom.

          I would really love if USA air carriers were that consistent. Even between brands here in the States they have different names for the same level of seat and amenities. I’ve mostly got it figured out for Delta and United, but occasionally I’ll have to book a long haul flight on American Airlines and have to look up their seat classes before booking to make sure I get what I want.

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            Even between brands here in the States they have different names for the same level of seat and amenities

            It’s like women’s clothing sizes!

            (And men’s, albeit to a lesser degree.)

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      My goodness the disbelief in these being first class makes me think you haven’t flown on commercial airplanes very much.

      I have, but inter city first class in Australia doesn’t look like that, even for domestic flights! The only time I’ve seen first class look anything like that was a prop commuter plane, flying to a country town.

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      Wouldn’t the flighr attentant be required to be strapped down during take off and landing though?

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      Those seats are way too small compared to first class seats. That looks like economy class to me.

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        That’s domestic first class. Maybe on a smaller plane like an e175, but it’s first.

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      edit to add: My goodness the disbelief in these being first class makes me think you haven’t flown on commercial airplanes very much.

      Literally 2 hours before your “edit to add”, an explanation was already provided. From the diagram, this might actually be business class, and my earlier claim that it would be “premium economy at best” was perhaps overstated. But still, this would never be “first class” on domestic flights here in Australia, or on any of the very many international flights I’ve been on during my time growing up as an expat.

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        Literally 2 hours before your “edit to add”, an explanation was already provided.

        2 hours after that explanation I was still receiving NEW posts claiming it wasn’t First Class. People weren’t reading the later posts and, like you, claiming it wasn’t first class anyway. So one edit with a picture addressed both things.

        From the diagram, this might actually be business class,

        I don’t get to decide what to call it. Its not my airline. Delta calls it first class.

        But still, this would never be “first class” on domestic flights here in Australia,

        I’m glad to learn something about my friends in Australia. However, this is an airline in the USA and this is what they call it.

        or on any of the very many international flights I’ve been on during my time growing up as an expat.

        Nor any international flights I’ve been on, but as I said in a later post, this is a regional jet. In the states smaller regional jets like CRJ and Embraer move passengers from smaller cities to larger hubs for cross country flights or international.

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          2 hours after that explanation I was still receiving NEW posts claiming it wasn’t First Class

          Sure, no problem with the fact that you felt the need to make an edit clarifying. The content of the edit was mostly very good. It’s interesting to learn!

          I just take issue with the notion that you knowingly prefixed the edit with “makes me think you haven’t flown on commercial airplanes very much”.

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      What about that looks like first class to you? Based on the size of the seats, I’d say that at best we’re looking at premium economy.

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        To be fair there is not article. It’s just a title and a picture.

        That said, considering any flight I have ever been on, and based on talks from anyone I know who is afraid of flying, once the plane is in the air, it’s neither scary or gives off any substantial soundsnor bumps that a flight attentant would be able to explain.

        Therefore I think that it is fair to assume that this was mostly needed during take off and landing

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          I’m not afraid of flying and turbulence can scare me if it’s bad enough. I’m not sure why you think everything is smooth once a plane gets into the air every time.