• enkers@sh.itjust.works
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    123
    arrow-down
    2
    ·
    edit-2
    9 months ago

    Who the fuck ever said being a neet was good? It’s the absolute shits, feeling like you’re unable to contribute to society, regardless if you think it needs to be burnt to the ground or not. You still know exactly what your contribution is.

    • lurch (he/him)@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      63
      ·
      edit-2
      9 months ago

      there’s a group of people glorifying it, because they don’t give a shit and might as well not work while doing that.

      however, i had enormous amounts of money during parts of my life and i enjoyed not having a job and just do whatver tf i want a lot. some of the best years of my life.

      • OhNoMoreLemmy@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        20
        ·
        9 months ago

        Having freedom and drive to do whatever you want is great, even if that means you spend a bunch of time just fucking about and getting high and watching TV.

        On the other hand, a lot of the people that are dropping out like this are actually just depressed. They look like they’re doing the same thing, but they’re actually just self medicating and it sucks for them.

        For some of these people, getting up and out the house, being forced to do a bit of exercise, and talk to people can help with minor depression.

      • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        ·
        9 months ago

        I think that’s the big difference. I’d love to do self guided projects and adventures. What I don’t want is to sit around too damn broke to go out

    • slaacaa@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      8
      ·
      edit-2
      9 months ago

      I remember one summer a long time ago, I couldn’t find a (good) summer job for weeks, while my girlfriend was already working at hers - felt like absolute useless shit, when she was packing her bag and leaving for work.

      Of course I wouldn’t mind being a billionaire and not having to work, but probably would still do a few hours of “work” every day e.g. deciding investments, helping charities, in order to not get bored.

  • corus_kt@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    109
    ·
    9 months ago

    I’d love to have this ‘wagecuck’ warehouse job, mine is just so soul draining day by day

    • KingJalopy @lemm.ee
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      121
      arrow-down
      4
      ·
      9 months ago

      Op is still on a high that comes with doing literally anything new. His soul won’t last, don’t worry.

      • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        35
        ·
        9 months ago

        His job sounds chill as fuck. If your soul can’t handle that sort of work then what can it even handle

        • FrostyTrichs@lemmy.world
          cake
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          30
          ·
          9 months ago

          For a lot of people boredom and lack of satisfaction in the job will kick in shortly after the new excitement wears off.

          Jobs that have lots of idle time often lead to annoyance and frustration that you have to continue to be there without much to do. Everyone is different though, some people probably enjoy it.

          • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            8
            ·
            9 months ago

            Same people complaining about boredom would probably next complain about there beint too much to do.

          • Feidry@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            6
            ·
            9 months ago

            This is exactly me. I spend most of my workday on my phone, doom scrolling. There might be an hour of actual work to do on a given day. It’s driving me insane and my neck is really starting to bother me from staring at my phone all day. I’m in the interviewing process for something different, so there’s a light at the end of the tunnel but it’s still pretty dark in here.

            • FrostyTrichs@lemmy.world
              cake
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              9
              ·
              9 months ago

              I feel your pain, and dealt with similar feelings when I worked a job that I didn’t find satisfying or challenging.

              There are plenty of ways to turn the downtime at a boring job into an opportunity to learn something useful or find time for self improvement. Something like jotting down notes about a project you want to start or topic you want to learn more about can get you away from the phone, even if it’s only for a few moments.

              I found it easy to break the doom scrolling habit by replacing it with reading books instead of garbage on the internet. I downloaded an e-reader app for my phone at first and used a free library membership to find some authors and topics to get me started. In my case I eventually got annoyed by the notifications and phone nonsense while I was trying to read and switched to a dedicated e-reader. YMMV.

          • ThirdWorldOrder@lemm.ee
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            4
            ·
            9 months ago

            Yeah I worked a job which security clearances were needed. Spent a lot of the week in the parking lot waiting for clearances to push through. Very boring and by the time you got in you didn’t feel like working anymore.

      • CancerMancer@sh.itjust.works
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        9
        ·
        9 months ago

        I worked a mailroom job with only about 3-4 hours of actual work a day. I was explicitly told I was free to spend any free time however I liked, so long as I stayed nearby.

        I read books, gamed a bit, learned some programming and Linux server stuff… was pretty great actually. I only ever left that job because the offer was for twice as much pay. I often still miss the free time.

        • Obi@sopuli.xyz
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          2
          ·
          9 months ago

          Yep I’m self employed now and still working my ass off but sometimes I day dream about just getting a job like you describe where you just have super low responsibility, simple tasks and lots of downtime. It’s a shame this usually means shitty pay, so I’m more focused on making my skills valuable enough that I can work only a few days a month.

          • CancerMancer@sh.itjust.works
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            1
            ·
            edit-2
            9 months ago

            I did the self-employed grind, lots of 12 hour days, lots of downtime with no work or money coming in. My wife hates instability to the point she refuses to let me invest our money anywhere (we use a managed mutual fund… ugh). This means it was get stable work or watch her hair fall out from stress, so I took what I thought would be a shit job but turned out to be a decent one.

            Get this: after working that job for a bit she says “I’m worried you have no ambition”. No shit I gave up my dream to work a mailroom. Anyway ended up back in IT not long after getting certs in my work downtime.

      • JustUseMint@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        arrow-down
        25
        ·
        9 months ago

        I interpreted 2-3 hours out of 8 as part-time but I see what you mean.

        However, in America, absolute fiction getting decent benefits anywhere, nevermind a fucking mattress firm

        • Zagorath@aussie.zone
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          25
          ·
          9 months ago

          I interpreted 2-3 hours out of 8 as part-time

          That’s a really weird way to interpret it. The far more obvious interpretation is that they’re employed for 8 hours, but the only actual active productive working time is 2–3 hours.

        • tory@lemmy.world
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          3
          ·
          edit-2
          9 months ago

          Depends on how one defines decent. But most full-time jobs do offer some form of healthcare benefits. Granted, it’s rarely ever fully covered by the employer, but still.