Is it legal in the US to get mail delivered to your chosen name when you haven’t changed it legally?
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If they cared about names, i wouldn’t have to keep “return to Sender - Not At This Address” stamping mail for previous tenants of my appartment.
Just yesterday I got one that wasn’t even for this apartment block. I know cuts are happening everywhere in government services, but damn. At least it was just some of those free personalized return address stickers.
Sadly they’ve always had a hate-on for USPS.
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Yeah, I’ve mailed stuff to people and written their online user names and they’ve been delivered. According to one person their mail person was judgey over it but did deliver it. But it would depend on the mail person I suppose.
I’m not a lawyer but I can’t imagine this would be problematic from a legal standpoint. For example, I’ve known several people who go by nicknames or their middle name and their birthday cards always get delivered without issue.
The tricky part is that some mailmen (mailpeople? I’m having a brainfart on the gender inclusive term.) won’t deliver mail unless it matches the name on the mailbox. This usually pops up in apartment complexes. In that case, just keep your last name on your mailbox and ensure your mail has a matching last name. Your first name shouldn’t matter.
(Postal worker or mail carrier)
Yes! Thank you
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Gendered last names fucking ruin this strategy
Can you explain?
Two eastern european chefs can have the same family name but different spelling of last names,
- Shashlikov, Shashlikovna
- Prostokvashino, Prostokvashiniy, Prostokvashinaya
- See also, the last names of people in the Zelensky family: Parents: Oleksandr Zelenskyy (father) Rymma Zelenska (mother)
Oh, that’s really interesting and informative! Thanks for explaining it.
Ah I see. OP did specify that they’re in the US so hopefully this is not a problem for them.
I’m in the US and it is very much a problem for me and another trans person even in a state that protects trans rights
Ashley Mansymann.
I don’t see the problem - Ashley’s mother and sisters would have the same last name, right?
Yeah but they don’t have a problem with it
I’m sorry, I’m having trouble understanding the situation.
The only way this should be an issue is if you’re getting a prescription or other controlled substance (like cannabis or alcohol) delivered to you under a name that doesn’t match your ID. And even then it’s a ‘this is a pain in the ass and I may lose my order’ problem, not a ‘I am going to get fined or prosecuted’ problem.
We aren’t completely sure, but one of our partners has recieved mail in their chosen name before even though it’s not their legal name, so we would assume so. Generally it probably doesn’t matter in most countries as long as the address is correct and you do not need to sign for it, even then, it probably is okay.
The only time when we can think of it being an issue is if it gets held up anywhere due to fees or if they had to take it back to the post office and you need to go collect it and offer proof of your name. Otherwise, we think it would not matter.
I never, ever use my real name for mail if I can help it.
Every piece of mail is scanned. There’s a service you can sign up for to see the scans of your mail before it’s delivered. I don’t know what is done with that data whether or not I am signed up for that service (I’m not).
Why do I care? I don’t know. General security practice. Costs me nothing, obfuscates just a bit of the data that’s collected by me. Obviously useless.
But yeah, it doesn’t matter. Definitely not illegal. Never had a mail carrier give a shit.
