I’ve never understood our societies obsession with when men lose their virginity. You see it in media all the time like in ‘The 42 year Old Virgin’ and ‘Last American Virgin’. It seems to be a bigger thing with men then women. Can any men here confirm?
Why does it matter when someone loses their virginity? If you ask me it’s no one’s business to when someone loses their v-card. People should lose it when they feel comfortable to. I hate our societies insistence that men lose it before the age of 18. Like if your an adult virgin our society sees it as a personal failing that makes you a loser. I never understood it myself. It’s frankly ridiculous.
While that’s true, as much as I don’t care when somebody loses their virginity, if someone has not lost their virginity by a reasonable age, I start to assume they are either overly religious, or socially stunted in some way.
It’s not so much the virginity as not having had an opportunity nor wanting to. There are obviously exceptions, like ace people or those with a history of abuse etc. Like other posters said, it’s more high schoolm thing to care about the age in years. I’m more thinking in decades.