It means they’re having bareback sex and the man orgasms while inside her.
It should not be tolerated at the workplace. I’m forced to listen to this rhetoric because my shift isn’t done yet, and I can’t leave without getting fired. I’m forced into a sexual discussion without consent, and it’s so graphically disgusting that I feel nauseous.
Because “We are trying for a baby” gives the “we fuck right now every moment we can” vibe, while “we hope to have kids soon” gives the “we have sex just like any other couple in the world, we just don’t use protection” vibe.
If you are discusted by “we plan to have kids soon” you might aswell be discusted by the fact people have sex in general. In that case you simply have an oversexualized mind and the problem really isn’t anymore in what words people use because any words will trigger you. You do notice women walk around with breasts. So discusting.
I don’t get the “we fuck all the time” vibe from hearing “we are trying for a baby”, but maybe because I’ve seen the reality of it; most people who are trying for a baby are informed enough to know that you don’t need to go wild most of the month, and most people have been together for quite some time and have stressful day to day lives that don’t allow (lust, time, and energy wise) for fucking all the time.
Usually “we are trying for a baby” implies they stopped using contraceptives and are tracking the cycle to fuck once or twice within the fertile window. It’s not that different from regular sex within a long term relationship. (If trying for a baby makes you go wild and you fuck like bunnies every day for months on end more power to you though!)
But then again I am not disgusted by the idea of people having sex or bodily fluids. If they share TMI I’m usually just like “nice” or “good for you!” and enjoy the fact that they are open enough and we are close enough for me to hear details about their private life.
That being said, why would anyone at work share that they are trying for a baby to begin with? Work environment usually doesn’t welcome pregnancy - it implies more sick leave, parental leave, and more emergency days off once the kid is older. Just saying “one day I’d like to start a family” makes you a less attractive person for a position. So I would always imply that I don’t want kids, I don’t want a family, I don’t even like kids and I am infertile.