• mocheeze@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    If were to have kids my plan is to start by locking down my kid’s devices in increasingly stronger ways as they learn new workarounds. Just for this reason.

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      1 day ago

      That doesnt work with all kids, my nephew gives up instantly when theres a technical barrier as simple as picking the correct video cable out of a pile of cables and just accepts that its beyond his ability.

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        1 day ago

        Can I ask how old he is? I was doing that when I was like 5 or 6. But I was born in the '80s so I had a parent that could teach me and let me figure out the rest as it came. Also helped we had color-coded RCA jacks and I could reach magazines and manuals by the time s-video was common enough.

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          14 or 15. He has really bad ADHD, even his distractions get cut off by other distractions until he is overwhelmed and then just incapable of the effort of figuring out why the DP he is trying to plug into an HDMI slot is “too small”.

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            1 day ago

            Ah. Well, we had those types too back in the day. Hopefully he gets the help he needs. If not then there’s still a chance his motivation will overcome his diagnosis, but I’m not a childhood ADHD expert. I only work with adults for their meds and such.

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      3 days ago

      It’s a dangerous bet - there were times where I was at the “despair resulting from failed desperation” point.