Assuming honesty in all that (and that is what I’m assuming, no reason to do otherwise), I definitely call that good faith. Absolutely.

I also tend to think that opposition can be done with respect and decency (with the glaring exception of bigotry that deserves no respect, but that’s off topic and I only mention it to hopefully avoid the watabouts). I think my opposition to some of the posts and comments in the carnivore communities have been done respectfully, I’ve at least tried to be respectful.

Mind you, it’s been a while since I interacted much there, since I’ve pretty much said all I can say without beating a dead horse, which I prefer to avoid.

Also, I really appreciate the way you’ve approached this entire discussion here. A lot of folks just want validation of their emotional response to whatever mod action they’re posting about, so it’s really cool when people fully engage in wrangling with the broader subject of how to approach moderation and user interactions with mods. At risk of going off topic, this community has changed my approach to moderation both on and off lemmy. I’ve learned a lot here about when to act quickly and decisively, and when to take a more gentle approach.