I just wanted to tell you how great you all are.

I moved to Lemmy shortly before the mass exodus from Reddit in 2023. I eventually created an instance of my own and to begin with, leaving Reddit felt like a mistake.

I could browse Lemmy’s equivalent of /r/all top-last-24-hours in about 15 minutes, so my doom-scroll time plummeted. I was better for it. However, I still yearned for the meme laughs and thought provoking comment threads of Reddit. Lemmy had them, but they were much fewer.

Fast forward to today. My instance is hosting a popular up and coming community, of which I’m honoured, even if I’m not welcome. The top-24-hour of all posts is now more than enough to satisfy my needs. I laugh at memes, I get to share posts I found on Lemmy with friends and family, I’m exposed to more cultures than just American which is a real refreshing change.

It isn’t mainstream, and I think its better for it. It has its own culture, and we are beginning to get all meta with Lemmy in-jokes which I think is both annoying and awesome at the same time (ie. Hussain memes).

Overall, I am just really happy for Lemmy and am glad to be sharing it with all of you. May the good times continue.

  • Secret Music@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Yeah, it’s not all bad. Although I think just like Reddit, your experience is largely influenced by the communities in your feed. Seeing the general outlook in here makes me realise I could stand to spend more time in communities like this than I have been.

    There’s actually a lot of good about this place, even if it’s not sunshine and rainbows all the time or perfect.

    I do think it could be a little busier though. A lot of communities could do with more posters and conversation in the comments in general. Like, there’s still a lot of room for more activity around here without it getting overcrowded and not seeing regulars anymore.

    That said, there’s actually more than enough good content and people, to make it worth coming back here tomorrow, particularly in the non politics and news cycle side of things here. And I agree that it does feel more international here than Reddit, even if 90% of the news still revolves around the USA anyway lol.

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    I started being online back when forums, geocities, mIRC, AOL IM were the norm… then MySpace, then Digg, then Facebook, then Reddit… etc etc…

    Yeah, at this point, I basically just non religiously pray that Lemmy never becomes super duper popular.

    Its the Yogi Berra quote: Nah, that place is too crowded, nobody goes there anymore.

    Seen basically every online… social interaction zone of any kind … be neat initially, then start getting lame, and eventually become an active SCP style cognito hazard that actively destroys the minds of those who use it, yet they become the new default norm standard.

    Lemme have my pork and beans and memes in peace, away from the rightwing/russian troll armies, away from the idiot boomers that ruined facebook (I know a good number of non evil ones are on lemmy), away from the dramatubers and streamers and psycopathic tiktokkers…

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    A platform like Lemmy wouldn’t be possible without everyone that is involved with both running instances/communities and those that post content in those spaces, and I think that’s really special because…

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    Thanks so much for sharing this! I love Lemmy, it’s a really positive environment and I like seeing the same users around. It feels more like the old days of message boards which is a good thing. There’s less content but its way better quality stuff

    Also if you like memes this post in !casualconversation@lemm.ee has some suggestions

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    I’m with you. I’ve been a redditor for more than a decade, and I’ve really been disappointed with it’s decline. It’s gotten much worse lately. Not only is reddit clamping down on speech, more people there are just assholes now. Yesterday I made a comment on a thread about cops chasing a graduate that had brought a baby on stage. In response to a comment about the cops handcuffing the baby, I suggested that they would probably punch the baby in the face while yelling “stop resisting!” Obviously a joke and clearly not advocating violence, but my comment was deleted and my entire reddit account was suspended for 3 days. Jokes on them, as I’m not interested in going back.

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    I didn’t word this well. Someone made a joke something like “what were they going to do when they catch her, handcuff the baby?” No babies were actually harmed.

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    Been on Reddit since the digg migration, ran a few big subs at various points. It’s unusable now. Automod filters silently remove so much. So many people speaking into a void. Mods are increasingly ban happy. Lifetime bans from the default subs for daring to question Israel with facts, or calling someone thick as fuck. My last account got nuked for making a guillotine joke.

    Fake news and conservative misinformation subs are rampant, creating a mainstream pipeline for the general public into all this delusional shite. They are a major contributor to the current algorithmically induced psychosis epidemic tearing apart society.

    Lemmy is good now, agreed. Same flawed moderation system however. At least it’s a bit more transparent here usually and communities are a bit more decentralised. Maybe moving away from individual communities to something like combined feeds (ie subscribe to @uk and you see all uk communities) could help mitigate any one community gaining dominance.

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      Would you mind pointing to some info on following combined feeds? I’ve never seen that mentioned before and it sounds interesting but I’m not sure how to, as you say, subscribe to @uk for example.

      I’m on one of the apps so its not the first time I’ve heard of some magical feature I never conceived of

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        It’s not a feature that’s implemented, just an idea. I did see something similar floating around as a proposal last year though

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    Yes, Lemmy is capable of satisfying one’s need for memes and most important news. But that’s it. More narrow-interest themes are not represented here at all. Just memes and news.

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      Yeah this is also true. Lemmy not being mainstream means any official space is reserved for the likes of Discord or Reddit. But being the under-dog also has its own benefits. It’s a much tighter community. I recognise peoples names on Lemmy, like the internet of old. I think the two things are mutually exclusive, and eventually it’ll change from one to the other.

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      Lemmy isn’t big enough for much that’s niche yet. At ~50k MAUs (not all of whom post) there just aren’t enough posters to fuel many narrow interest communities.

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    if i could put you in a time machine, the last place i’d send you would be 2008. but if i was horrible and sent you there, you’d go to reddit and think it was lemmy.

    (ed-formatting)

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    Thanks for sharing.

    My instance is hosting a popular up and coming community, of which I’m honoured, even if I’m not welcome.

    May I ask what happened?

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        Which is a fundamentally unenforceable rule unless you rely on posters to go out of their way and be polite enough to say ‘hey I’m not a woman but I appreciate many topics of discussion here.’

        Before I realized that ‘girls only’ was an actual rule, I made several comments there that were generally popular, and only the ones where I added a ‘I am a guy, but here is how I would approach this woman’s fashion’ type comments… those ones, I got asked to leave, with other commenters saying ‘no, let them stay!’, and the ones where I didn’t mention I am a guy, they just got upvoted and spawned other silly convos.

        Oh well, I guess?

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        Ah, ok. Understandable. For some reason I thought of actual drama. I am a real troglodyte in that regard and can’t help it.

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      It’s the WomensStuff community. It looks like a really good group, but it’s women only allowed to post and comment I believe.