• fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com
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    6 days ago

    My partner and I stay far away from everywhere on Valentines Day. She also wears a 3D printed ring or the “nice” Amazon $9 ring, so I think I partially lucked out.

    • justme@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      6 days ago

      Similar here. Our engagement/wedding rings we bought together. Since we have a coming Bank account it anyway doesn’t matter who pays. Making a nice surprise is of course always nice, but that doesn’t need to be materially valuable.

      • fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com
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        6 days ago

        For us, we are designing her “real ring” ourselves to either make or have made, but its very modest and more about the band design. We are very outdoorsy so that drives simplicity, too. Personally I have a cheap silicon ring, and love it since it barely feels like I have anything on.

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    7 days ago

    Its too bad this is the way they feel they need to show their partners affection on Valentine’s day; a huge waste of money directly into the maw of the capitalist machine.

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      7 days ago

      Absolutely! Don’t waste your money on meaningless trinkets! And even better, if you ask me – don’t celebrate Valentine’s Day at all! My partner and I don’t do anything for it, we just do things for each other whenever we feel like it, and we’re happier that way.

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        6 days ago

        I met my partner one v day and we first said I love you the following year the day before, so it has significance for us. She gets me a bag of Lindsor chocolates, I get her a bouquet of flowers, we write a card and are happy.

        It about contributes to the capitalist machine as much as anything else I do: watch TV, read a book, go to the theater, drive to work, pay a guy to fix my roof…

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          4 days ago

          I think watching TV and going to the theater are unhealthy too, but that’s a larger conversation.

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        6 days ago

        Wasn’t the whole day invented to basically make meaningful romantic gestures impossible in mid-February?

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      7 days ago

      at opening time 5am my local supermarket parking lot was full of 40ish year old dad types grabbing flowers and chocolates and cards.