• nevaseerius@sh.itjust.works
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    10 hours ago

    Real talk, how is stupid any less ableist than retard? Same meaning, same origin. It’s like telling people to stop calling black people n-words, call them coons instead. Pretty silly imo!

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      10 hours ago

      Stupid is the lower end of normal intelligence variation, retarded implies a developmental or other condition outside of the normal variation.

      Stupid doesn’t refer to a disability, retarded does. That’s how stupid is less ableist.

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      10 hours ago

      I don’t know if I completely agree with the R-word being now not acceptable as much as the N-word.

      But I believe the reason behind it is ‘stupid’ is and always has been general term for anyone and always has been.

      ‘Retard’ was actually used as a medical term for a class of people that had cognitive issues outside of their control. And while a good majority of people have re-used the word to general mean ‘stupid’ over the years with no intention to imply said person you are saying that to actually has ‘cognitive issues’ outside of their control.

      I believe that’s why its derogatory now, but yeah… language is always changing.

      • n3m37h@sh.itjust.works
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        4 hours ago

        Stop implying the word and say it, because of your inability to say said word means I now say it in my head because you use a silly other word to call the word what it is now placing the burden on me because you are a coward to say a word. Go to Australia and yell cunt, ya wont even get a reaction but I bet you will say something about me saying cunt because you are one.