Easy. Predator on a predator.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean you keep interacting with them or keep up any relationship. Forgive, not forget. Forgive, not give them the opportunity to repeat the harm.

People say you forgive for yourself in order to move on. Personally it has never really clicked for me, how to forgive someone who hasn’t asked it or changed.

The thing that helps me let go and move on is understanding and acceptance. Understanding why they are the way that they are, or accepting that I may never know. Accepting that they are not the person I thought or hoped or wanted, and understanding how they actually are based on their behaviour.

Forgiveness may come much later, once you are safe and able to process with some distance, but only if it would benefit you. No point in forgiving someone who keeps hurting you.

Why care?

To give some fucks, probably.

I just pretend I need to get off at the next stop and make sure to get up when they’re looking so they can grab my seat. Then just walk to the other end of the cart, or to the door and look at the map only to then “realise” that this is not my stop after all and remain happily standing.

This comment section really shows how important it is to specify your location when asking for advice.

Airing out radiators is like the simplest task one can do where I’m from. One flat heat screwdriver and a rag for the dripping, and you’re done faster than you can even call a landlord or repair firm. No crazy steam contraptions.

So you’re either calling for an expensive and time wasting repair unnecessarily or catching a faceful of scalding steam, if you take advice from the wrong part of the world…

Santa hats on spooky shit for sure, if I can be arsed. I rarely manage to take down decorations until it’s time to put em up again, so I try to just take down my least favourite items and let the ones I enjoy stay year round.

Biggest mistake was decorating my many plants with fake spider webs. Took me a year to get rid of (mostly for lack of trying) and looked like shit with all the dead leaves staying tangled in it instead of falling away.

I’m trying to stick to more permanent decor since.

Many countries have some sort of Romeo & Juliet-laws where teenagers of a certain age are allowed to have sex with each other/in their age brackets but adults are not allowed to have sex with minors.

Is that the case, or is 40+ and 15 good and legal?

Cool! My sink was small enough that I’d fill it thrice while washing under the tap haha. Now I have a washing machine and won’t be going back.

Yeah true!

Thanks, I was wondering what to waste my weekend on this time around!

Wouldn’t the first batch of lukewarm water just be used for the prewash/rinse cycle? So it doesn’t matter if it’s fully hot yet or not.

That’s like the second most wasteful way of washing dishes, with the most wasteful being the same thing but not turning the tap off while scrubbing.

Well, presuming you have enough wares for a full wash. Filling the sink for just one plate would be unnecessary…

You can plug the sink and wash with your current tap method and see how many dishes it takes to fill the sink with water - that’s how many you need to collect to save water with the sink method.

It would share the rectangle shape and cut off corner with the “new document” icon.

Wouldn’t that look quite a lot like the “new document” icon?

A couple of fully rebookable vacations (because no way am I getting family or friends to agree to a date and location in a day).

High quality all-season camping gear and at least three new pairs of shoes (hiking, working out, everyday) and a quality bed for myself.

Cleaning service gift cards for any leftover amount.

No, I changed my mind: Any leftover amount would go to charity. I can clean my own damn house (or live in filth), and my current bed is good enough.

Nipples. Used to be none,

then one,

then three.

Then three in one follicle (two fine one thick).

I don’t count them anymore, just yank em quick.

You can set it to update location every minute, hour, ten seconds etc. Then just check the app for last known location. I have excellent telecom coverage where I live, and it can ping for wifi networks as well as gps, so I have personally never lost signal as long as it’s charged.

The frequent charging might be the biggest downside for tracking a bike, for my pet I can just do it every night when they stay indoors and don’t need it.

Some cats are just like that, they have very strong boundaries and some don’t consider anything worth going outside their comfort zones. Others can be trained, if you figure out their favourite treat and the right time to train. But sitting in the same room and blinking at each other now and then is a also a good enough show of intimacy in their language.

My pet tracker can be set up to only send location when asked for it. It uses a SIM card (pre paid), plus you can call it to listen to the surroundings or have it blink or make noise through the app.

The app requires the phone numbers of the people who are allowed to query the tracker.

I don’t know what trackers are available in your country. I found several who had subscription-type deals to have the tracking actually work. I hate subscriptions, so will always choose to pay more upfront to control my usage and cost. It’s a lot more expensive than any sort of air tag.

With the one I have I can delete the app after setup and only text the number to get gps-coordinates when I wish, but the app works great for my needs.

It also triangulates with WiFi etc to give a more accurate reading. All such settings can be changed in the app.

Can’t speak for privacy aside from it can be set up to only send info when queried and only to preselected numbers. Kinda depends what you mean by privacy respecting.

It does need to charge (varies greatly depending on weather, queries, settings etc) often.

If you want a variety of fruits included fridge unfriendly ones:

Could you keep a bunch of fruit at work instead of bringing one each day?

Or keep a picture of fruit in the fridge with your lunch and trade it for the fruit when you pack your bag so you don’t forget it?