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Just healing and growing.

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Cake day: April 14th, 2025

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  • I agree with you.

    I don’t mean to hurt anyone with me shortening my words, I’ve been getting lost in my desire to write more and liked how I wrote it.

    I’ve been on my own rough journey, I was lost in my armor well up til I hit 30’s, I remember the moment I saw my self for the first time and everything started making better sense. Going out there and becoming myself was just that. I had to go out of my comfort zone, challenge my fears and make that next step to figuring myself out and becoming me. My life didn’t start when I got married, when we had our first kid. It started when I came out to myself. All those were just layers of connection on top of my self. I didn’t know my self, so I just used my 「Autistic High Masking Magic」 to make a shell and navigate the world with no self guided direction.

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  • Thanks for making this post to begin with. I’m just exploring Lemmy as part of my complete overhaul with technology. Definitely feeling like when I used to stumble on communities and forums for niche content and then start getting to know people through forum posts.

    I am in the mindset right now that I need to be part of creating the content I would want to be seeing. It’s a wasteland otherwise if we don’t make engagement, together.

    Oh also 35, married (wlw), have kids and cats, Canadian and been on HRT for nearly 1 year, out and socially transitioned before then because I had to wait over a year to get HRT access and still looking at all the wrong gender was not an option after I accepted I was trans.









  • Venturing into lemmy fr finally. Was woken and have been in bed on my phone for the past (nearly) 4 hours. Alarms are done already. It’s almost time I actually begin the day…

    Todays to do: Shower, brush teeth Take meds (forgot yesterday) Wake up kids and drop at dayhome

    ???

    Start filing taxes? (Aka make sure I can log in accounts first)

    I’ll try not to binge animal crossing too soon in the day. I’ve recently been excitedly remodeling our island now that I’m done Zelda echos of wisdom.