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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • My hobby is collecting hobbies. If I listed all of the ones I pick up and put down I’d be here all day, so here are the most consistent ones:

    • Gundam model kits
    • Postcrossing and snail mail swapping
    • Crochet
    • Learning Japanese (for a combination of pop culture appreciation and keeping my brain sharp)




  • Ugh yes. Last time, about 4 years ago, it just felt like stretchy pressure.This time, about a week ago, the NP remarked that I was awfully dry, but even after she lubed the speculum it felt like she was trying to rip me apart.

    sex, way tmi

    (Which is honestly what any sort of penetration feels like nowadays; I can use enough lube to stain the sheets and still feel like I’m riding a roll of sandpaper. I’m only 38 ffs!)




    1. If I make a spelling, grammar, or word choice error, or am unable to find a noun and have to describe the thing, then my entire point is invalidated. If I fail to accurately translate my shapeless, interwoven web of thought-color-shape-idea into paragraphs the other party can understand, they now have reason to regard everyone who holds my position as too stupid to be allowed to speak.
    2. Insisting on a debate can be sometimes (but not always) a tactic used by people who want to wear out the other side.
    3. The same reason I block, mute, and ignore advertisements: I get to decide how to spend my attention.