Hello everyone!

My name is Kate and I’m from New Zealand. I’m 46yo and pre everything. Still coming to terms with myself and in the process of coming out to friends. I don’t hate being a guy, but get so much gender euphoria being a woman.

I enjoy socialising & having a few drinks, doing bjj and mountain biking. Gotta do something to keep fit.

Things have gone way better than I expected. My wife and I have recently separated because of this, but she is very supportive anyway. Everyone that her and I have told, have been completely supportive and also the local trans community have been amazing. The “Later” part is odd I guess. I spent 44 years as a guy, so I wonder sometimes if I am trans or just curious. Like I feel I should have known years ago, so am I kidding myself. But then I play a scenario in my head - if my Dr told me I was a crossdresser and not transgender, how would I feel? And I found I would feel sad and disappointed I wasn’t a woman. Self doubt, argh.

I guess my question is: What is it about being a woman do you love the most?

Those are all valid points. Calling it theft would be a good ethics debate though… Oh she would be getting a bad deal if she woke up in my body, in my life.

Me too! No pools of water on the floor, no wet towel after 1 shower.

“you wanna go bruh!”

The fastest is a carnivore…

100% I’m masturbating and checking myself out in the mirror while doing so.

Then I’d buy myself all the things I wanted (assuming I wake up in her life and not just her body in my life).

It’s about money. Early start, early finish usually. But if overtime is needed, there is time in the day for it.

If you were born in America before America was America, are you still American?

I do believe there is a sub on that other site called Maps without New Zealand…

Nah that’s an Aussie accent mate. Way off.

Love your enthusiasm. You make it sound exciting. I’m still trying to figure out what’s going on with myself and you make it sound a lot less scary. Thank you Miss brainfart 🙂

Aren’t the AE86s pop up headlights and the AE85s fixed headlights?

Thanks. Found it. Now I can read without squinting 😄

The test isn’t the panels you click on, it tracks how your mouse pointer moves. Bots or robots tend to move in straight lines, whereas with humans, the pointer moves in a more random fashion. That’s how you pass.

I see this post is almost a week old now, so hope things have gone well if you’ve had the conversation.

Ideally you want to front foot this so you can control how and when she finds out. My wife found out when she saw the notifications from my reddit account. Shit hit the fan. It’s settled down now, but almost 2 years on she still has trust issues. I’m out to close friends (as to what I am, I’m not sure yet) but sill present male virtually all the time.

Also it’s the people we care the most about that are the hardest to tell. I feel guilty telling friends cause I feel like I’ve wasted the time they’ve invested in the previous me and they may not want to be friends with the new me.

You aren’t alone 🙂

I like what I was thinking better 😁

so if i type all in lower case, i’ll look like this?

It only gets worse. 40s suck more…

🎶I pushed my fingers into my eyes🎶

That is worse than nothing. I got angry just reading this.