“Don’t make a wrong move,” the officer said as he pinned the struggling subject to the ground. “Period.”
The officer tightened the handcuffs around the subject’s thin wrists.
“Ow, ow, ow, it really hurts,” the subject exclaimed.
The officer pressed his weight into the subject’s small body while school staff watched it all unfold. The person he was restraining was 7 years old.
I’m guilty for insisting that it’s good to learn life lessons at a young age.
I agree, it’s good to learn life lessons at a young age. Not sure what that has to do with the article about giving a 7 year with autism PTSD after being pinned to the ground by an adult for half an hour.
You’re allowed to be an authoritarian, just keep your boot licking to yourself, children shouldn’t be victimized for your ideological beliefs
With proper, consistent, non-extreme consequences to poor choices at home, children can usually extrapolate without the need for the application of “serious” punishments.
That whole “scared into good behaviour” thing is bullshit punishment escalation that’s typically only deemed “necessary” when the “discipline” situation at home is random, inequal, unjust, and therefore difficult to understand as a framework in life from the ages where such behavioural patterns are formed.
That’s not to say some people won’t continue to make poor choices anyway, but scarring children emotionally isn’t an appropriate “solution” to that.
One-on-one individualized attention coupled with understanding and empathy is the thing to start with there.