• Crashumbc@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    Haven’t used the apps in years. But never really thought of them as a conversation tool.

    I only used them for meeting, quick chat, and then setting up a date.

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      10 months ago

      Every time I’ve tried to have a quick chat and set up a date, I’m called creepy for wanting to meet in person right away. Guess I’m not good looking enough.

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        10 months ago

        Things may have changed, I’m older now. By quick chat, I mean back-forth over like maybe a week give or take. Get a date the next week.

        One thing, most miss about these apps, is like IRL it is about volume to some degree. Meet as many people as you can. If you get dates from 20-30% of your interactions you’re doing really good…