• some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
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    1 day ago

    Fake breasts don’t look right or feel right. I’d prefer natural A cups to fakies. I have an ex who wanted fakies and I begged her not to ruin her body. Dunno what happened after we broke up.

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      12 hours ago

      it’s sort of not your decision to make though. someone else’s body is generally not made for you, even if you’re in a relationship. your ex could choose to respect your opinion on their body, but it’s definitely not mandatory and should not be treated as normal and self-explanatory. getting surgery might add confidence in this twisted world.

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        5 hours ago

        Agreed, and that’s fine. It’s also my call if my partner’s body part(s) stops turning me on. It’s not judgement for getting the procedure. It’s the sensation after the procedure.

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        10 hours ago

        At the same time, you’re not obligated to find them attractive though. And if your partner decides to alter their appearance to the point where you don’t find them attractive any more, ending that relationship is just as valid.

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      10 hours ago

      I also enjoy chill size titties and they are better for the back. But I still said “good on ya” when a mate wanted to “upgrade”, I made sure she really knew what she was doing though, but what looks best is always someone that feels great in their body, that feels like they look good. I have tastes but that is reserved for when someone asks, and if someone wants an opinion, I will be honest and say this is just my kind of style. Like with any accessory or hair color or anything I will compliment when they look like they’re feeling fabulous lookin great and that’s a shine no body shape or outfit can top. It can only make them feel that way. That’s how I dress too. I dress for me. It’s what’s gotten me most compliments so far.