• tehfishman@lemmy.world
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    4 天前

    It certainly is for me. I still have difficulty whenever someone tries to compliment me on anything as a result of childhood bullying that frequently took the form of merciless insincerity.

    I hope you’re doing better. Your life is worth sharing.

    • Rowan Thorpe@lemmy.ml
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      3 天前

      That term “merciless insincerity” is an amazingly concise yet thorough way to capture one of the pervasive things I get most frustrated by (across the many countries I’ve lived in, so it is not a georestricted behaviour). Whenever I try to describe it I get too wordy. I’m stealing that.