reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net to ShowerThoughts@sh.itjust.works · 17 days agoMost people aren't attracted to an entire gender so why do we frame attraction in those terms so much?message-squaremessage-square41fedilinkarrow-up141arrow-down117
arrow-up124arrow-down1message-squareMost people aren't attracted to an entire gender so why do we frame attraction in those terms so much?reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net to ShowerThoughts@sh.itjust.works · 17 days agomessage-square41fedilink
minus-squarezqps@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down10·17 days agoThat doesn’t resolve the question though. What does it mean to be “fundamentally attracted to women” if you’re not actually attracted to most women?
minus-squarezoostation@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up13·17 days agoI’m attracted to femininity, first and foremost. Femininity is a requirement, and it’s not flexible. But then there are other more flexible preferences about specific appearance or personality details I might like in a woman.
That doesn’t resolve the question though. What does it mean to be “fundamentally attracted to women” if you’re not actually attracted to most women?
I’m attracted to femininity, first and foremost. Femininity is a requirement, and it’s not flexible. But then there are other more flexible preferences about specific appearance or personality details I might like in a woman.