I always hear stories about the dangers of buying from WIsh.com, Aliexpress, and recently Temu. I’ve jokingly called them “buyer beware” sites even. Yet people still use them, and there’s just as many positive results as negative. But I’ve also heard about unexplained card charges, data hacks, pyramid-scheme-like behavior, etc. So which of those sites, or other similar sites, is the “safest” if I DID wanna shop there?

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      Because of the rise of online stores and the decline of brick and mortar, there’s actually a lot of stuff you can’t reasonably get without shopping online now.

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              People in rural areas have significantly fewer options at their disposal for shopping. Say someone likes to cook as a hobby and can’t find herbs and spices that aren’t common in their area. Cardamom, Ceylon cinnamon, five spice. Or advanced culinary equipment and ingredients. Things like a mandolin, agar-agar, dry ice. I like to make craft cocktails at home as a hobby. If I had to rely solely on the liquor stores in my home town my bar would be less than half the size it is and I would have very little of the equipment I use to make ingredients. I’m also an amateur mycologist. I never would have gotten into the hobby if I didn’t have access the the resources I do online.

              What am I supposed to do? Abandon my passions because the materials aren’t locally available?

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              Anything from a specialty hobby. I’m a falconer, I don’t think there is a single brick and mortar store in the US for that.

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                Presumably back in the day it would have been mail order thru specialty magazines? Genuinely curious

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                  My book from 1976 just says that bells and hoods are “available commercially” so I’m not sure. They did have club magazines going that far back so I’m sure there were ads in those.

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                  I’m not really sure. Falconry in the US mostly stopped after colonial times and didn’t come back until the 1930s or so. The first clubs weren’t formed until early 60s and formal licenses weren’t until the 70s. I’ve seen magazine articles about mail ordering hawks, falcons, and eagles. I think most people made their own equipment and some stuff was sold word of mouth. I do know there was a lot of scouring of old (1600s and earlier) books for diagrams and instructions. I’ll see if one of my books has stories or I’ll ask some of the original members if I can remember.

                  Here’s a short history on US history: https://www.n-a-f-a.com/page/History

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        I’m not a grandpa I’m just not so convenience focused that I need help deciding which slave and children labor outlet is safest for me.

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          Don’t act all high and mighty, half the products you purchase are probably still child labor produced

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            I do my best to make purchases that cause the least amount of harm to any living creature involved with its production. It’s not high and mighty, it’s the right thing to do. Why don’t you do that?

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              you’re mostly being judgy on the internet towards strangers, so there’s that

              also, I don’t know where you live (nor do you know where op lives by the way), but as an example I asked the other day in one of the only electronics shop in my town, if they had Thunderbolt 3 cables and they just answered “no”. I have a ton of examples like that: video projectors, canon proprietary cards for their cameras, printer ink for my printer, a case for my phone, a new piece for my turntable, a new battery for my bluetooth speaker, etc.

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                I’m not being judgemental! You guys attacked me cause I said something y’all didn’t like.

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                  You assumed op were young because that allowed you to display your wisdom, while answering a question they didn’t ask. when someone pointed that out and someone else said that ordering online had advantages because you could find things you otherwise wouldn’t, you got defensive.

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              Because it’s not my responsibility to fix the world that billionaires fucked sideways?