Maven (famous)

The most annoying thing about being famous is having to tell everyone how famous you are.

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Cake day: June 21st, 2023

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  • The reason they don’t include reddit is because of the same licensing thing that caused all the reddit apps to get shut down and helped boost Lemmy.

    The best non-google version that still gives you the recent reddit ones would be SearXNG and that’s because it’s a search aggregate tool that searching on Google and DDG and so on for you and then gives you the best results.

    Edit: it’s also self-hostable if you’d prefer that

























  • As with any relationship, you can either decide it’s not worth it to keep bringing up… Or if it matters a lot to you, you can break up.

    Sometimes, even with a lot of communication, the relationship just doesn’t work. Not everyone is meant to be. Sometimes your needs are very different from your partner(s) needs and separation is the best way to make you both happier in the long run.



  • Everything you said here was so good honestly.

    I am extremely happy whenever my partners find someone who can help make them as happy as I try to. I want my partners to have the happiest possible life ever and it’s unfair to everyone involved to stop them from being able to get that happiness.

    I think something a lot of monogamous people forget when talking about poly is that jealousy is a pretty natural thing to happen… Even in polyamorous relationships.

    I’ve felt jealous before in my situation, the difference is that I talked with my partners and found a good solution and set of boundaries that made everyone happy vs trying to control their time and life.

    I said this in another comment but the most loved I’ve ever felt was when my fiancé helped me pick out my outfit for my first date with my bf (who I’m also to a year with!!). I also love helping them both with their relationship struggles and life issues and so on. I love them both tremendously.