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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • I am not disabled but my husband is. We’ve gone through many psychiatric reviews together to get and maintain his disability status. I will tell you that it doesn’t get easier being under the microscope. It is natural to have feelings of guilt and want to be defensive when you’re faced with the realization that you’re not considered “normal.” I absolutely hate going to these reviews because they always make both of us feel like we aren’t doing enough to be normal. But the at last review we went to the psychiatrist was amazing and when we both started shutting down during the interview she told us that it’s okay; we’re not normal but we are coping in a very healthy way. She commended us for our efforts, our routines, and our strong relationship. And that little bit of recognition really really helped. So yes you might be down now after reading what your friends wrote and discovering some new things you didn’t know, but I would definitely suggest that you take a personal inventory of all the things you are doing to live your best life right now. Don’t sell yourself short.












  • I’m not okay. I know my life isn’t as bad as it could be. I feel like Covid was easier to get through because everything happening wasn’t controllable in a grander sense. What’s breaking me now is the fact that things clearly don’t have to be this way. It’s infuriating to watch so many people get away with being so colossally stupid. I can’t get through a single day without having the overwhelming urge to slap sense into other people.